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Dreaming about sister-in-law
1. I am 40 year-old male, married with 2 children. I have been attracted to my brother's wife for the past 20 years. I have kissed her on her cheeks, and hugged many times, and she did not object. Does this mean that she will not mind me having sex with her. I have masturbated thousands of times thinking about her. I have just been hesistant to ask her directly. Please advise.
Vijay Kumar

Desi mentatility
2. I am a desi with black skin. Right from my childhood, I had bitter experiences of being black-coloured. Until I flash my educational credentials, no one even pays attention. We pray to dark-colored gods such as Ram, Krishna, Venkateshwar, etc. Still black colour is looked down upon. We never have black heros and heroines in our movies; though they are not spectacularly white as I see here in the west. Make-up makes them appear fair and beautiful. Right from my childhood, people tease me about my colour. What should I do?
india_expatriate.

I'm a man with breasts
1. I'm a 20-year-old guy and I have excess fat tissues on my chest ever since I remember, making them look like breasts. However, this problem has become even more embarrassing of late due to my putting on some weight. I wear extra layers of clothing, tight vests and avoid taking my shirt off in public due to this issue. I am a good looking, intelligent guy, but this problem just kills my self esteem and confidence. I'm trying to lose weight as much as I can. Are there and other options? And is this a common problem? Please advise.
frustrated_20
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You should see a surgeon for cosmetic surgery. It is a small harmless operation and your problem will be sorted out for life.

Attracted to my aunt
2. Ever since I turned 13, I had this obsessive attraction towards my dad's cousin who in relationship is my Aunt. I dream about her and masturbate. Whenever I see her, I get excited. I'm 18 now and I have a girlfriend. But I still can't get over the fact that I'm in love with my aunt. I have touched her private parts a couple of times. She did not react to it. Does that mean she might be interested too. I want to get intimate with her. Is that asking for too much or should I tell her how I feel and ask her to sleep with me. Please answer me back. I also know that I'm adult now and she will got into any legal trouble.
Nayek Alheri
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: So, you have already worked it all out in your mind. Sure she will not be held responsible for molesting a child but what about incest. Since she is older and more mature she is still liable to be prosecuted.  Well, that is not the only reason why you should wean yourself off her. Why assume that she is ready to have sex with you? She did the right thing by ignoring your audacity of touching her private parts. A ruckus about it would have ruined so many lives and relationships. You better discipline yourself and get ahead with your life minus her.