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Sex after marriage
1. I had an arranged marriage. And my husband and I are different as persons. I am trying to sort out the differences and still do not feel very comfortable with him. We have not started having sex yet. What I feel is we should be close to each other and become good friends first, feel comfortable and then go ahead for further relations. Is my thinking right? Sometimes I feel guilty that he is not getting what he should get. But he has not complained anything and is still the same to me. Can we wait until we become atleast good friends? Is it wrong?
Sunita

Sex with 12-year-old gal
2. I am a 25-year-old unmarried boy and working abroad. I am staying with a family who has a 12-year-old daughter. She is quite well-built and sexy, and whenever I see her, I feel like having sex with her. Her parents are always away at work and returns only at night time. She remains all alone at home after school. She also gives me positive signals. Often she gives me attention when her parents are not there( she doesn't dare to speak a word when her parents are there). I am sure she will easliy oblige to have sex with me if I ask, but I fear asking her. It seems she also loves me. Will it be a problem for me if I have sex with her.
Mangesh

Sex with men
1. I am a 29-year-old man. I have got into a habit of having sex with guys, especially elder man in the age group of 50 years. Is there any harm unprotected sex with them? If I come across a handsome guy I feel like I should havre sex with him and I look for signals to see if he is interested in me. And sometime I do masturbate. Now my problem is that I can't have long time erection. Please advice.
San
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Unprotected sex with multiple partners is a sure way of getting AIDS. You will have to discipline your sex life for solution of both of your problems - prevention of AIDS and early ejaculation.

Immoral sex act
2. Seven years back, I started having sex with my cousin who was married and had three daughters, the elder is 18 years old. Later, in another 4 years, I started having sex with her elder daughter too and worst still, after another 2 years, I made them have lesbian sex with each other (mother and daughter) and right now we three of them have sex most times. I wanted to get out of it since I feel guilty, but I am addicted to it. Help me.
Ashok.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: There is no help for a person who does not want to help himself.