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Love or family?
1. I have been recently appointed in a MNC. Soon I fell in love with my boss, who hails from a totally different background. We have cultural and religious differences. I am a Rajasthani Rajput Hindu girl, while he is an Indian American Muslim. After a few days of hanging around with him, I dared and wrote a short note with my routine reports, 'sir, I am in love with you. Now, it's up to you to either chuck me out of the job or embrace me as your bride.' I was able to convince him of my love for him and finally he accepted my proposal. I believe him and he's a very good guy, especially of high moral conduct. My only problem is my family. I don't have enough courage to approach my family for this. Please help.
Shikha.

Unsucessful intercourse
2. I am 24 years old, married for last two and a half years but am still virgin. My problem is that my husband and I have been unsuccessful in performing intercourse. Can you please suggest me some way.
Priya

Sex outside marriage
1. I'm a 42-year-old man married for around 12 years now. I recently had sex with a trusted female. Since then I am having an itching sensation on the tip of my penis and white accummulation is forming in the tip of the skin. Please help me in answering me the suitable treatment for this disease. I am working in Middle East.
Daniel
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: There is no short cut to seeing a doctor when there is a swelling on the penis tip. A thorough check-up and may be a few blood tests are required. Meanwhile just wash the penis with soap and water and keep it very clean for the infection to take care of itself. The swelling is going to subside in a few days but you must go to a doctor for blood tests as soon as you have an access to a doctor. Remember AIDS even when the friend is trusted one.

Sex with objects
2. I am a 34-year-old married woman. My husband works outside the country and he comes home only once in a year. On the advice of my friend I started masturbating using some objects like thick candels, cucumber, sometime plane sticks, hard fingering and whatever possible. Sometimes I get wild and perform very fast in and out of these objects in my vagina. I don't have children. I want to ask if using these objects are harmful or would it affect my chances of getting pregnant or child birth. Also if this could damage overy or ovam. Currently, I don't feel any pain or unusual sensation during the process.
Shela
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: The objects used for sex do not directly harm ovaries or ova. Some of the objects used (and you never know which one) can be the carriers of harmful bacteria and their frequent use might lead to pelvic infection which results in pain, yellowish bad smelling vaginal discharge, menstrual problems and might also make conception difficult. Sex with objects is discouraged precisely for this purpose that can it renders women infertile. Whoever suggested it to you did not do it in good faith.