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Sex outside marriage
1. I'm a 42-year-old man married for around 12 years now. I recently had sex with a trusted female. Since then I am having an itching sensation on the tip of my penis and white accummulation is forming in the tip of the skin. Please help me in answering me the suitable treatment for this disease. I am working in Middle East.
Daniel

Sex with objects
2. I am a 34-year-old married woman. My husband works outside the country and he comes home only once in a year. On the advice of my friend I started masturbating using some objects like thick candels, cucumber, sometime plane sticks, hard fingering and whatever possible. Sometimes I get wild and perform very fast in and out of these objects in my vagina. I don't have children. I want to ask if using these objects are harmful or would it affect my chances of getting pregnant or child birth. Also if this could damage overy or ovam. Currently, I don't feel any pain or unusual sensation during the process.
Shela

How to express love?
1. I have a friend who's four years my junior. I know it doesn't seem like a huge gap but for her it seems so. I think I love her but won't really know until we try to get involved romantically! I know she used to have feelings for me. I am not so sure if she still does. How do I ask without risking our friendship and without creating uneasiness in our relationship? Are there any subtle techniques?
Aashish
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Any body that is in love knows how to convey it to the loved one. Any body that asks this question in fact wants to know how to express LUST. There is no answer for this question although becoming a caring and a sharing person can convey message of love.

Past relationship haunting me
2. I am a 22-year-old girl currently in a relationship with a guy. Around four years back, I met a guy who used to give me maths tuition. After few months, he proposed to me and after a thought I accepted, without realising that I am not in love with the person. Initially, our relationship was very strong and I felt that we are made for each other. Later the ideologial differences started to creep in and distances were created. Then I realised that I made a mistake at the very first place by accepting his proposal since I didn't love him. I was overwhelmed by his love for me. Since, we were committed to each other, I tried to convice my family, but to no avail. His family was also not in the favour of our relationship. After all this ruckus, I decided to break off with him, however he kept saying that will always love me and will not marry. After four years, I met a guy who seems to be the person of my dreams and I am totally in love with him. But somehow, I cannot forget this fact that my ex-boyfriend truly loved me and I left him in distress. It was me who broke the relationship and now I have entered a new relationship. Am I too selfish to do this. Please guide me how to get over these guilt pangs
Meera
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Guilt is a healthy emotion as it is a conscience keeper and helps persons like you not to stray from the socially acceptable norms. You cannot absolve yourself of all the guilt feelings as you have been enjoying the affair with full knowledge of impending break-up for ideological reasons or disapproval of his parents and lack of your personal experience of love for him. He is bound to feel miserable in the situation and you can do nothing about it. Teenage love affairs are often a common source of misery because they start for all the wrong reasons and people tend to remember them even in ripe old age with a tinge of regret and remorse.