Unsafe homosexual sex 1. I am a 32-year-old married man. Around fifteen days back, I had a homosexual relation with a friend. I allowed him to masturbate me with his hands. He also put my penis in his mouth for some time, but I ejaculated by his hands only. I did not touch his penis nor did oral. Is there any chance of me having AIDS, in case he is infected? I am enjoying normal sexual relationship with my wife. As I am told that tests have to be carried out after 3 months only and I do not have valid reason not to have sex with my wife, I am asking this question. Please advise. Alpha
How to improve sex life? 2. I'm married for four years now. I had no knowledge about sex before marriage and it looks like it is affecting me now. Whenever my wife and I have sex, the intercourse lasts for not more than a minute. I cannot hold my ejaculation for more than a minute. My wife has been nice to me so far and every time we have sex, she tells me that she gets an orgasm, within that one minute of intercourse. I feel she is lying as she doesn't want to hurt me. I want to satisfy her sexually. Do you think I have a problem of pre-mature ejaculation? Do I need to see some specialist? Can you give me some tips to enhance my performance on the bed? Please guide. Suryakiran
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Fed up with hubby's lover 1. I have been married for 37 years. My husband has cheated on me over and again all these years. I have forgiven him all the time but this time it seems intolerable to accept his behaviour. This time he got involved with a woman 36 years younger than him. My husband gave her a lot of money in exchange of oral sex with him. It is hard to forget the fact that he has cheated on me and has never been faithful to me. My husband's lover is really crazy and often calls up in an inebriated state. I just can't help getting angry in such circumstances. Plaese advice. Rutj Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: All I can do is 'Salute' you for being forgiving wife for 37 years. There is nothing for me to say. Just keep up the tradition. Your husband is most likely to stray again.
Want to bed my sis-in-law 2. I am a happily married 30-year-old guy. Although I enjoy a healthy sex life with my wife, I still fantasise a lot about my sister in law (wife's sister) who I feel is one of the sexiest female I have ever come across. I just want to share my fantasies with her and tell her what I think of her. I want to have sex with her once to satisfy my urge. Please suggest how to approach her for the same. Asif Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You are misinformed about the role of a counselor. You will have to ask your mother on how to make an indecent proposal although she should have trained you for this eventuality along with toilet training.
