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Fed up with hubby's lover
1. I have been married for 37 years. My husband has cheated on me over and again all these years. I have forgiven him all the time but this time it seems intolerable to accept his behaviour. This time he got involved with a woman 36 years younger than him. My husband gave her a lot of money in exchange of oral sex with him. It is hard to forget the fact that he has cheated on me and has never been faithful to me. My husband's lover is really crazy and often calls up in an inebriated state. I just can't help getting angry in such circumstances. Please suggest.
Rutj

I want to bed my sis-in-law
2. I am a happily married 30-year-old guy. Although I enjoy a healthy sex life with my wife, I still fantasise a lot about my sister in law (wife's sister) who I feel is one of the sexiest female I have ever come across. I just want to share my fantasies with her and tell her what I think of her. I want to have sex with her once to satisfy my urge. Please suggest how to approach her for the same.
Asif

Sex after 50
1. I am 55 and my wife is 53. She feels that sex after 50 is not proper maybe because of some misguided spiritual counseling at her pravachans. I am not the kind of person who would look for sex outside marriage for any reason but this irks me no end. I might not have much stamina either but as I work for a IT company, I do need some release at times for sheer stress busting. Any way can I deal with this without hurting her?
Sammy
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Who can take cudgels with 'Parvachans'? Not me. The 'gurus' (television or otherwise) are very persuasive and real good at brainwashing. They talk about 'Brahamcharya' and do not hesitate in prescribing it to people in 'Grahasth stage'. For 'gurus' it is a must for people above the age of 50 i.e. stage of 'Vanprastha'. Apart from self-help marriage counseling usually helps.

Sadistic sex
2. I am a 32-year-old married man with five kids. From the last eight years I used to have a very good sex life. I usually had sex twice every day and even four times on weekends. Now I have started to develop sadistic tendencies. I don't get pleasure in sex and have erection until I undress my wife, take her nude in bathroom, switch on the shower on her naked body and beat her up with belt on her breasts, buttocks, genitals. Then I slap her hard for four-five times and pull her by hairs. After doing all this I get full erection and I enjoy good sex which lasts for about half-an-hour. Though I feel guilty about ill-treating my wife. Please help me out.
Jayanth
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: What do want to hear from a counselor? No amount of counseling is going to help because what you need is a thorough whipping. I do hope your wife will shortly oblige.