'I love 'him', but am married' 1. I am married but I was never happy with my husband because I always felt he never cared for me. Though I am very intelligent and educated, my husband never encouraged me for a career. He even ridiculed all my efforts to start a career. He was never romantic and often used to brush away from attempts to show love. I tried to be a dutiful wife and tried to love him. Then something strange happened. I learnt computers against his wishes. Meanwhile I met another guy and we became best friends. He knew I had dreams of successful career. He understood my feeling. So we started our own business and work which is fairly successful as we both form a good team. Though, initially we were very good friends, graudually we came close and started loving each other. We are still doing business and we still love each other very much but his family and mine are now against us but business is a thread which binds us in such a way that no one can separate us. Yet now his family forced hom to get married. Now I am in a dilemma... I love him very much...yet I dont want to upset his life... yet I also don't want to quit a profitable business.. my husband is of course very angry with me or all this. I don't know what to do..it's not easy to walk away from my friend as we both love each other very much and share a great professional team. But I feel very lonely as I live another country. I don't know what to do. Please advice me. Piha
Addicted to porn 2. Can you tell me how pron movies can affect the health of a man. I am addicted to watching porn movies. I watch these movies all the time when I am free. Please guide me how I can get rid of this habit. Kaami
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Sexual problem? 1. Whenever I do any analysis or draft some documents I have a tendency to get sexually excited. Even when I am writing this question I am beginning to get excited. Though it has nothing to do with 'sexuality' but I am extremely sexually excited while writing some documents or analysing any report. Why it happens with me? Is this a sexual problem? Don Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: It is unusual to get sexually excited every time you are engaged in serious work like analysis or drafting. There is no ready-made way to analyze and pinpoint the cause of such behaviour. You should go to a counselor and talk honestly about yourself for deciphering the root cause of this unwanted sexual excitement and for generating solutions to keep it under control.
Is it normal to lose interest in sex post delivery 2. I am 32, married for about 2 years. I have become a father recently for the first time. Before delivery, my wife sexually active but ever since the child birth she has lost interest in sex. Is it normal to lose interest in sex after delivery? If yes, then how much time a woman takes to regain it. If not, then how can I prepare her mentally to have sex and enjoy it? Kindly suggest, I am worried. Mahtab Ali Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: It is neither normal nor common to loose interest in sex after delivery. You should talk to your wife and gently prepare her mentally to start sex life all over again. Both of you can consult a counselor (may be her own gynecologist) for resolving problems which are keeping her away from active sex life.
